The free consultation is an opportunity learn about mediation as a process and to discuss any questions you may have about the mediation process and the role of a mediator. We will take a detailed look at the different ways to structure a mediation, the benefits of mediation, the steps in the mediation process, the cost of the process, and so much more.

• You will negotiate with the assistance of a skilled and neutral facilitator. Mediation is a voluntary process in which our lawyer-mediators act as neutrals to help guide both parties negotiate an agreement.
• Mediation is a patient process to work through difficult or complicated issues. Our mediators will guide you and your spouse through the issues, while assisting you to communicate respectfully and productively. You can negotiate interim, partial, and final separation agreements, cohabitation agreements/marriage contracts, parenting plans, or changes to existing agreements and orders.
• Mediation provides the flexibility to build creative solutions to meet your family’s unique needs and preferences. The process is very flexible and can cost less than traditional negotiation or litigation. It provides the opportunity to design your own solution, in accordance with your values and goals.
• You can create stronger, longer lasting agreements. Research suggests that those who reach a settlement in mediation are more likely to remain generally satisfied with the outcome in the future and more likely to adhere to the terms of the settlement as both participants “buy in” to the agreement when it is created.
• You can preserve ongoing relationships. In some cases, the goal is to accomplish a “clean break” and maintain mutual respect and dignity. In other circumstances, the goal may be to maintain an amicable or business-like relationship for each other and/or the children. Mediation is a collaborative problem-solving exercise that encourages the preservation of ongoing relationships to the extent desired and appropriate in the circumstances.

Yes! Not only is mediation a quicker and less costly way to reach a resolution, it is a more flexible and respectful process that allows you the space to consider the needs and interests of the family. Court also comes with an emotional cost that can be minimized or eliminated in mediation. Mediation is forward-thinking and solution-oriented.

A mediator who is also a lawyer will have a deep and up-to-date understanding of the laws about property division, child support, spousal support, and parenting plans. Although the mediator will not make decisions for you, they can share a lot of legal information and guidance to help you generate options and assess the viability of those solutions within the legal framework and your personal circumstances. This will empower you to make your own decisions with greater confidence, especially if you wish to explore creative solutions.

The preparation of a Separation Agreement is considered the practice of law by the Law Society of Ontario so a mediator who is also a lawyer can prepare your agreement in the format of a Separation Agreement. This is one of the main benefits to working with a mediator who is a lawyer. It can save you time and money, both now and in the future.

Virtual (online) mediations have proven to be just as effective, and in many cases, more effective, than in-person mediations. With Zoom, we are able to replicate and enhance the features of an in-person meeting. For example, virtual breakout rooms are truly private compared to in-person breakout rooms which cannot be 100% sound-proof when mediating in person. We can also share screens which makes sharing information much easier as it is more accessible and visually closer to see and review. Virtual mediations are also more convenient to access which will decrease the amount of time spent away from other responsibilities such as work or childcare. As a result, virtual mediations tend to be more cost-effective and more productive than in-person mediations.